Motherís Day Tips and Thoughts on Life

May 3, 2012 | Posted By: Francesca | Categorized in: Family
Approaching one of the first Mothers daysí that I have experienced from the perspective as a mother has got me thinking about the deeper meaning of life, family and whatís important. The Motherís Day tradition started with many ancient cultures celebrating motherhood, maternal bonds and the influence of mothers in society. This celebration has taken on a more commercial flavor in recent times but regardless I think the occasion still plays an important role in underlining a time for reflection on the importance of mothers and their meaning. Maybe Iím becoming more sentimental as I now have my own child but nevertheless I feel the need to express some thoughts on life and motherhood as it may resonate with other mothers in a similar situation.

I donít think itís an exaggeration to say that we mothers are to have the single biggest influence on our childrenís lives. From small babies to adolescence itís us that have the biggest effect in these formative years. They are called formative years because it is during this period in their young lives when ďthe die is castĒ so to speak and they ďformĒ most of their personality and basic human character traits. Such lies the courage and selflessness of mothers who, despite having the enormous responsibility of establishing basic inter-human skills in our sons or daughters, we can not only rise to the challenge but access incredible meaning from this ancient, primal task.

Being together with family on occasions like Motherís Day are so special and they are the times that we remember the most fondly. Our relationships with others, particularly family members, are the most important aspect of our lives Ė they give us, and our lives meaning. But remember, while being a mother is an incredible responsibility it will also be the most fun and satisfying journey youíll ever undertake!

Now, with Motherís Day fast approaching and with the maternal bonds of family and motherhood firmly in mind, I wanted to share some activities that, when undertaken with sons or daughters, can provide some meaningful family interaction:

  1. Paint a mural on a wall in your house Ė in our house we have dedicated the laundry wall as a kind of family mural. We plan to give it a light undercoat and then me and my youngest are going to spend several hours debating what to paint, actual painting, choosing colors and constructing an amazing real life family mural on our laundry wall. I am honestly counting down the days for this one - I canít wait!! You will produce a lasting, colorful memory of your special day together that you will both cherish.
  2. Put on a home-made, family theatre production - who doesnít like dressing up? Have a ball with your husband and family on Motherís Day as you decide on a play (make it one with a simple plot), and subsequently carry it out in front of family and friends. For the super-keen you can even make your own hand made/sewn costumes and paper mache masks.
  3. Write a letter to the future - Want your special day to have some meaning? Nothing is more meaningful than your little darling writing a letter to someone in the future. Throw open their imagination. It can be about what your child wants to be when they grow up or how they would fix the world or what they would say to someone in the future. Put it in a sealed, glass bottle and go with them and together throw it into the ocean or river. Watch their face light up as their little brain wonders who will be reading their letter, what will their name be, where will they be from etc etc! You will both be recalling this day for years!

Francesca often finds herself pondering the meaning of life.

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