If you can live without the 14k - taxes, forgive the debt.
I mean if you at least love them & you're not starving. You don't have to like them.
Chyvan
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 12:14a
I only know what my brother told me.
I believe FMV was approximately $42K. Originally, I at one point was going to pay my brother and sister 2/3 of FMV. However, they thought it was worth $60K. This was all done while my mother was alive and she was in the middle relaying messages. I was like no way. Get it appraised by someone that's not one of your friends, or list it and I'll beat the best offer by $1K. Personally, I thought they'd be lucky to get $40K, so for them to get $42K was reasonable.
If my brother wanted to, he could pay me, but as of now, he's only saying that now was the first he's heard that my sister didn't send me a check. I'm not willing to go so far as of yet to say he's lying on that issue.
ratdaddy said: Did sister truly take all of the $14K, or split it with brother? Does he have assets to go after for repayment? If the house was sold to relatives, I'd be checking into whether all you're really entitled to is just $14K. There could be more to the story yet that you weren't told. Do you know the fair market value of the house? IANAL, but can OP sue for 1/3 of FMV if greater than $14K if property was fraudulently sold under FMV without his consent?
Chyvan
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 12:20a
I've been doing some googling. I'm almost postive a notary was involved, but I won't be able to actually see the documents until Monday, and I'll be in MI through Tuesday night. Is filing a claim against a notary's bond or possible Error & Omissions policy easy enough that no lawsuit need be filed? Are the limits enough to almost cover a $14K claim?
I don't want a big legal thing. I just want to get what's mine and let whoever takes the actual loss go after my sister and brother.
zapjb
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 12:45a
Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this?
SUCKISSTAPLES
FW Historian
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 12:48a
Depends what the notary did. If the notary was part of the fraud, yes their bond may pay you.
But if your brother or sis had a fake ID made up, and got a third person to sign as you, then the notary did nothing wrong. A quick look at an ID satisfies their obligation.
There is not going to be any "easy/painless" way to get your money back. But yes I would start with the title/escrow/notary to determine what happened before you start making any accusations.
DrDubious
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 7:52a
swandown said: 2. authorities begrudgingly agree to investigate but drop the case due to lack of evidence. (You say your signature is forged? Well, your sister's attorney's handwriting expert says otherwise...)
Can you establish you were 2500 miles away at the time of the forgery? Think landline phone records, meetings or timecards at work, EZ pass records, credit card transactons, etc.
Also, I Would be curious if the escrow agent would be willing to provide you a copy of the canceled check "you" cashed to see if it passed through any banks where you don't have any accounts but your sister does, and what the endorsement on the check looks like.
vipercon
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 8:34a
zapjb said: Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this?
Exactly what part of this story makes it sound like there is a strong sibling relationship to start with?
weaselslave12
Tired Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 9:51a
vipercon said: zapjb said: Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this?
Exactly what part of this story makes it sound like there is a strong sibling relationship to start with?
If I hated my siblings and they stole 14K of mine, I still wouldn't want to see them go to jail.
ChemElady
Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 11:22a
Guess that's why they say different strokes for different folks...
I don't know the OP's story but something tells me his sis and bro benefited most from the house yet still decided to stiff him/her.
taxmantoo
Ancient Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 2:34p
zapjb said: Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this?
Apparently they're fine with it, or they wouldn't have committed the fraud. Why shouldn't OP be OK with it too?
OP: What county/township/city is the house in? Can you look up the property/owner/purchase price here, or on the county's web site?
zapjb
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 3:30p
Some people hold the tenet of forgiveness paramount. Specially if it's only money. Maybe that's why.
icobra
Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 4:16p
That means the sister got 28k and has nothing left? What did she blow 28k on? Are you sure your brother only got 14k?
Tiggerlgh
Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 4:26p
Can you look up the sale on the assessors site to see who the owners were prior to sale, the sale date and the official sale amount?
scottxmso
Senior Member - 4K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:04p
zapjb said: If you can live without the 14k - taxes, forgive the debt.
I mean if you at least love them & you're not starving. You don't have to like them.
This isn't so much a debt as it is money that they stole from OP by committing fraud. Of course i hardly know anything about OP's family but it doesn't sound like preserving relations with his siblings is important at all. I can completely respect if someone wants to avoid the this drama altogether, whether it be because they stole from you or because you were deprived of $14k. The restitution or feeling of justice from taking it to court might not be worth the stress and energy. (Though personally i'd probably pursue the matter if i were in this situation.)
And I can understand not wanting to see them get a criminal sentence in either case. prison can be a rather harsh place in the US (but nothing compared to some countries). Several years in prison (and your life ruined because of a felony conviction) might not be a punishment that fits the crime.
imbatman
Nerdy Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:19p
I've been reading this with interest. Still not clear to me that OP has any paperwork indicating any sort of ownership (on paper)
I had a thought. I don't know if it's feasible/possible because I don't know much about evicting people, but can OP attempt to initiate eviction of the in-laws that supposedly own the house now? The wouldn't they have to prove that they rightfully own the home?
psm321
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:28p
Chyvan said: I only know what my brother told me.
I believe FMV was approximately $42K. Originally, I at one point was going to pay my brother and sister 2/3 of FMV. However, they thought it was worth $60K. This was all done while my mother was alive and she was in the middle relaying messages. I was like no way. Get it appraised by someone that's not one of your friends, or list it and I'll beat the best offer by $1K. Personally, I thought they'd be lucky to get $40K, so for them to get $42K was reasonable.
If my brother wanted to, he could pay me, but as of now, he's only saying that now was the first he's heard that my sister didn't send me a check. I'm not willing to go so far as of yet to say he's lying on that issue.
ratdaddy said: Did sister truly take all of the $14K, or split it with brother? Does he have assets to go after for repayment? If the house was sold to relatives, I'd be checking into whether all you're really entitled to is just $14K. There could be more to the story yet that you weren't told. Do you know the fair market value of the house? IANAL, but can OP sue for 1/3 of FMV if greater than $14K if property was fraudulently sold under FMV without his consent?I don't know anything about the legalities with liabilities and such, but for yourself, keep in mind that your brother still was complicit with the fraud of forging your signature even if he thought you were getting a check.
Consult a Michigan Title company attorney. You may have recourse against the notary and/or the company (bank?) the notary worked for. You might be able to get a judgment to allow you to place a lien on the property.
ThePessimist
Happy Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:45p
zapjb said: Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this? I love my sister, and wouldn't want any harm to come to her. But some of that is based on the thought that she loves me too. If she hypothetically raided my parents' estate and performed criminal actions in the process, my feelings towards her would probably change. In OP's case, it sounds like he is mostly estranged from his siblings. While I wouldn't expect him to actually try to deliberately jail his siblings, I wouldn't blame him if he risked the possibility of it happening. Remember that they, or at least the sister, showed him complete disrespect and consciously decided to criminally rip him off. It's no better than if she had forged checks on his bank account.
wanabath
Ancient Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:51p
SUCKISSTAPLES said: Depends what the notary did. If the notary was part of the fraud, yes their bond may pay you.
But if your brother or sis had a fake ID made up, and got a third person to sign as you, then the notary did nothing wrong. A quick look at an ID satisfies their obligation.
There is not going to be any "easy/painless" way to get your money back. But yes I would start with the title/escrow/notary to determine what happened before you start making any accusations.
You can read through a bunch on opinions in this thread, but SIS has told you what you need to do. Your first action is to contact the Title company that this deal went through.
Also, make sure you have documented your brothers info, through writing or recording that he knows first hand that she forged your name. With this, it is going to quickly become the problem of the title company....they will not want this problem and may just settle with you.
jnheinz
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 5:58p
DamnoIT said: I again think you may have suit against the title company. I cannot see a proper transfer of title without you present and I would now seek to try to nullify the sale or cloud the title since you probably won't get a time out of your sister. Whomever was the idiot agent that handled the close without you needs to be fired and have their notary pulled, their company should take some blame in this matter. But do defiantly get on your sisters good side and BS her into signing a contract, +1 if in her writing an with her signature offering a repayment plan. If you cannot get it out of her at least that may be some evidence for your case against the closing agency that didn't do their job and illegally transferred title. But again get a lawyer.
I'm on board with this plan, OP.
SUCKISSTAPLES
FW Historian
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 6:04p
We don't know if the sublings removed his name from title before the home was sold. Title company may have seen only two people were on title when they became involved .
Op needs to start figuring out what happened and when, looking at the recorded documents and asking questions of the title escrow and notaries involved.
ThePessimist
Happy Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 6:26p
SUCKISSTAPLES said: We don't know if the sublings removed his name from title before the home was sold. Title company may have seen only two people were on title when they became involved . SIS, I thought that the title company had to pay out regardless of whether there was an obvious defect on the title when they got involved. Regardless of whether they saw two or three people, don't they still have to pay out to resolve claims against the title?
BitemeIamtoxic
Non-toxic
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 6:29p
Read the above from SIS. You need an agent on the ground doing the background and the footwork. A P.I., a lawyer with a P.I., or at minimum get a title search. And a third-party should do it to remove emotions from the equation. My bet is that there is a title insurance firm with it's biblical beast of burden hanging out, that won't care what the filial relationships might be.
glock65803
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 6:37p
In addition to what has been mentioned, I have to think there is a way to involve the IRS in this. She has $14k that she never reported. If she says you loaned her the money, you should be able to write off the $14K as a loss. Due to the distance involved and fraudulent RE transactions being so important to the feds right now, I would see what the feds say.
BarbeQueGuy
Cranky Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 7:16p
Whether or not you there will be ill-will with the family, you need to get the authorities involved. The sale of the home is a capital gain and you are liable to the IRS for the proceeds of the sale. The fact that it was sold in 2010, your federal income tax for that year needs to be amended. Best thing is to get a lawyer involved if only to keep the IRS hounds off your back till it gets resolved.
Good luck, I'm executor of my mother's estate, and have had to bring myself up to speed on a lot of things.
GADOM
Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 8:05p
DO what you have to do OP but I think that once you have the facts and a clear timeline of the events that others can verify unless the title company or the notary bond wants to settle at the demand letter point you likely have expenses (your time, energy, and effort as well as your money) that exceeds $14,000.
OTOH I have seen cases where people with "no money" when confronted with "Here is the evidence I have and I'm going to file a civil suit in the morning." suddenly someone in the group finds some money. Present the evidence at a meeting of all three -your siblings and the "homeowners". Do not threaten to accuse them of a crime or to "go to the DA" if they don't pay up -in most states that is either extortion or blackmail. IANAL.
$42K transaction to relative- probably no title co. or bank involved..cash exchanged. deed recorded.done deal. really feel for you,OP, being the victim of fraud is no fun,especially when it is at the hands of a family member..Let it go if you can, get a judgment in small claims court, write it off as a bad debt if it works out for you tax wise. Otherwise, the stress and legal fees (possibly for many years to come) are just not worth it.
lottathought
Broke Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 10:04p
I do not think ANY deal is absolute if it is based on Fraud. It seems that a lot of people here are trying to treat this as a Civil matter. This is Criminal. The OP will need an attorney to begin with..but when the ball gets rolling, his attorney will not have to be the one pushing this...the DA will. Once the Sis is found guilty, the Civil part will be a slam dunk.
I did just buy a house recently and the closing attorney took all the money for closing into an escrow account and then cut checks to each party that was supposed to get it. This included the seller, inspections....misc... I am trying to determine how the Sis would have gamed this. I am wondering if she took the check and somehow got it cashed...or if she forged some power of attorney.....or maybe forged the Will and the OP was no longer even on it.
I can not stress how badly you need to find out exactly what is going on and if you were even listed as being a part owner.
And since when is stealing 14k so small that the police will not care? That is more than you usually get in a bank robbery.
Ohh..the police just let the killer go. The victim was old and was gonna die soon anyways. Nahhh..the police did not go after the rapist...the victim will just forget about it. No harm..no foul. Look...this is serious. And it should be addressed now. If she will do this, she will also steal your identity...or something else.
rottyfan
Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 10:08p
zapjb said: Jeez. Are you ready for the possibility of seeing one or both your siblings going to prison over this?
Well it's pretty obvious one or both of his siblings were willing to accept that risk.
zapjb
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 10:22p
Point blank. I want to know if 14k - attorney fees will take food off the OP's table.
Reallyfrugal
New Member
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 10:36p
I would see an attorney and then go to the police if the attorney agrees that there was a crime committed. The people who bought the house may have well been in the scam as well. If the sister came into the OPs house and stole 14K worth of property I think most people would agree the OP should call the police. I do not see this as much different. It is not the OPs fault if the sister goes to jail. I also would not be so sure that the house closing is a done deal. If you buy a stolen bike you do not get to keep it just because you paid for it.
dukerau
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 7, 2012 @ 10:37p
zapjb said: Point blank. I want to know if 14k - attorney fees will take food off the OP's table.
You don't know OP or his family. I think you're commenting from the perspective of your family relationship, and it doesn't seem that the OP fits that model. I think he knows what kind of ramifications can mean for his brother and sister and can make his own decision whether or not to proceed. He got screwed over. If it were a "business partner" or a random stranger, I doubt you'd question his desire to press forward. Just because it's his family doesn't give them a pass, unless HE wants to give it.
Ethics,family strife aside-just do the math. Attorney= 5K retainer.Maybe netting 9K if successful. This is a much bigger can of worms and has far reaching effects for nieces, nephews.etc.. Yes, this is most likely criminal.But, most police departments have much bigger fish to fry these days.OP only you can make the call.Best of luck to you.
fat9wallet
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 12:22a
Reallyfrugal said: I would see an attorney and then go to the police if the attorney agrees that there was a crime committed. The people who bought the house may have well been in the scam as well. If the sister came into the OPs house and stole 14K worth of property I think most people would agree the OP should call the police. I do not see this as much different. It is not the OPs fault if the sister goes to jail. I also would not be so sure that the house closing is a done deal. If you buy a stolen bike you do not get to keep it just because you paid for it.I am not a lawyer, but I believe I do get to keep the bike -- provided I didn't know that the bike was stolen.
zapjb
Senior Member - 1K
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 12:35a
fat9wallet said: Reallyfrugal said: I would see an attorney and then go to the police if the attorney agrees that there was a crime committed. The people who bought the house may have well been in the scam as well. If the sister came into the OPs house and stole 14K worth of property I think most people would agree the OP should call the police. I do not see this as much different. It is not the OPs fault if the sister goes to jail. I also would not be so sure that the house closing is a done deal. If you buy a stolen bike you do not get to keep it just because you paid for it.I am not a lawyer, but I believe I do get to keep the bike -- provided I didn't know that the bike was stolen. It's a good thing you're not a lawyer. LOL Idk about bikes. But with automobiles, purchaser loses the vehicle if an unauthorized sale took place. And is left to recover lost funds on their own.
rsmo2222
Ancient Member
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 1:15a
I am an attorney, in practice for 30 years but not in Michigan. In the interest of brevity, there are some interesting posts here but I am not going to discuss them individually. You need to retain counsel in the area where the property is located. Get all the documents you have relating to this situation, and sit down with the lawyer. There are too many unknown facts now to try to sort it out here. If there is a forged deed, it may have been forged and notarized long before the sale. There could be a claim against the Notary who notarized the forged deed, but that may have occurred well before the buyer's title company became involved. Assuming a forged deed was involved, there is no coverage for the original poster under the buyer's title insurance. There is usually coverage for the buyer of the property under the title policy, but no insurance coverage for the OP resulting from the fraudulent recorded documents. The buyer's title company will usually provide attorney representation to defend the OP's claim that he is still a partial owner of the property that was sold.
The first thing you need to do is get an attorney in Michigan, provide whatever documents you have, and meet with him/her. The attorney can obtain other public records, and lay out your options. I would NOT take any of this to the police until after you've obtained an opinion from your lawyer. When and how to start a criminal investigation will be something to decide with your attorney. I would also stop discussing this with any family members until you have decided your plan of action with your attorney.
Laws vary from state to state. Start by determining your choices and plan a course of action with your attorney. Get a second opinion if you are not comfortable with the first attorney you see. Most attorneys have very reasonable fees (or even no fees) for initial consultations. Make sure you understand how you will be charged, and get this in writing.
The Fat Wallet community is a great resource, but not a substitute for your own fully-informed attorney. Good luck!
Sorry for not being more precise originally. Yes, the BUYER's title insurance would cover the BUYER against forged documents in most circumstances, but this coverage does not belong to or extend to the original poster. My advice is still the same -- get everything together and see an attorney.
ThePessimist
Happy Member
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 5:36a
fat9wallet said: I am not a lawyer, but I believe I do get to keep the bike -- provided I didn't know that the bike was stolen. IANAL either, but I know this is wrong. If you buy stolen property, there are now two victims of the crime: the person from whom the property was stolen, and you. If law enforcement tracks down the property, you have to give it back. All you get is the right to sue the thief for selling you stolen property to try to recover your money.
mrlandlord
Senior Member
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 6:28a
There must be more to the story. If op lived 2500 miles away who provided most of the day to day care for the mother? Even if she lived in a nursing home there is still ALOT of day to day stuff a relative has to do. Did op go to the funeral? did sister/other brother pay for/plan the funeral? Does the sister and/or brother possibly have the feeling that they did all the work and should therefore rightfully get the op's part?
LordB
Senior Member - 2K
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 7:31a
mrlandlord said: There must be more to the story. If op lived 2500 miles away who provided most of the day to day care for the mother? Even if she lived in a nursing home there is still ALOT of day to day stuff a relative has to do. Did op go to the funeral? did sister/other brother pay for/plan the funeral? Does the sister and/or brother possibly have the feeling that they did all the work and should therefore rightfully get the op's part?
And this has what to do exactly with it being a crime or not? This is FWF not family court.
beanie4me
Geeky member
posted: Jan. 8, 2012 @ 7:38a
mrlandlord said: There must be more to the story. If op lived 2500 miles away who provided most of the day to day care for the mother? Even if she lived in a nursing home there is still ALOT of day to day stuff a relative has to do. Did op go to the funeral? did sister/other brother pay for/plan the funeral? Does the sister and/or brother possibly have the feeling that they did all the work and should therefore rightfully get the op's part?
There may well be more to the story, but none of these questions change the fact that the law was broken when this property was sold without OP's knowledge or consent. Being angry does not give anyone the right to break the law.
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