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minorthreat1 said:And you can be sure the Washington Post will then put up an article about how you died sitting in your own filth and starved to death when you were an obviously at risk individual who should have had 24 hour care. And your nephew, of course outraged, will take those responsible to court. Respecting the wishes of a 98 year old man with dementia? Where was the State!? Completely incompetent, all of them!

This goes to the core of the issue the government isn't responsible for the choices I make and no competent court would hold them responsible. If a person isn't a danger to society they should be allowed to be left alone.


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This thread should be preserved as "Exhibit A" of the absurdity of the anti-government absolutism espoused by several posters here. I wonder if these people think that mandatory education for minors is "Orwellian" and that six year-olds should be allowed to live on their own if they so desire. Or perhaps they hold the equally ridiculous belief that self-sufficiency has an "always upward" trajectory and that as centenarians they will be able to take care of themselves just like when they were twenty five.


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minorthreat1 said:And you can be sure the Washington Post will then put up an article about how you died sitting in your own filth and starved to death when you were an obviously at risk individual who should have had 24 hour care. And your nephew, of course outraged, will take those responsible to court. Respecting the wishes of a 98 year old man with dementia? Where was the State!? Completely incompetent, all of them!
Of course they will, because that is the type of story that draws readers.

Where is the story for the senior who breaks her hip, then is coerced into a nursing home by a social worker who thinks she needs help, and by her family who pressures her to go voluntarily before the state commits her involuntarily?

Slipping and falling doesn't necessarily mean you can't care for yourself. It may also mean that the floor was wet.


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OLEOLEOLEO said:This thread should be preserved as "Exhibit A" of the absurdity of the anti-government absolutism espoused by several posters here. I wonder if these people think that mandatory education for minors is "Orwellian" and that six year-olds should be allowed to live on their own if they so desire. Or perhaps they hold the equally ridiculous belief that self-sufficiency has an "always upward" trajectory and that as centenarians they will be able to take care of themselves just like when they were twenty five.
If a centenarian has the mental capacity to make an informed decision about his own situation, then what do you care if he prefers his dignity?

Not all of these people are completely disconnected from the world. Do you honestly believe that a person with the normal mental capacity, and the legal capacity to commit crimes, enter into contracts, and sign informed consent papers for medical procedures, should be denied the right to choose the manner in which he or she lives?


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minorthreat1 said:

It would be wonderful if it were possible to provide 24 hour care for them in their own homes, but hiring 4 full time nurses per person and having thousands of dollars in equipment at each home just isn't feasible.

Most patients don't require much equipment and would be fine with a $10/h attendant who shows up every other hour. This could certainly be done for $70k/year. Letting health insurance companies or nursing home chains dictate how health care is delivered leads to poor care that is very expensive.


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staci86 said:OLEOLEOLEO said:This thread should be preserved as "Exhibit A" of the absurdity of the anti-government absolutism espoused by several posters here. I wonder if these people think that mandatory education for minors is "Orwellian" and that six year-olds should be allowed to live on their own if they so desire. Or perhaps they hold the equally ridiculous belief that self-sufficiency has an "always upward" trajectory and that as centenarians they will be able to take care of themselves just like when they were twenty five.
If a centenarian has the mental capacity to make an informed decision about his own situation, then what do you care if he prefers his dignity?

Not all of these people are completely disconnected from the world. Do you honestly believe that a person with the normal mental capacity, and the legal capacity to commit crimes, enter into contracts, and sign informed consent papers for medical procedures, should be denied the right to choose the manner in which he or she lives?

What evidence do you have that this man meets any of these criteria??? The article says that those who know him think he would be better off staying in the assisted living facility rather than moving to a nursing home. Unfortunately, Virginia does not provide public assistance for assisted living. That is the issue. No one in this article is suggesting he would be just fine living alone. Whoever donated $60,000+ to keep him in assisted living probably doesn't think so either.

The article does not say what kind of medical treatment was necessary after this man fell off his bike. At that age even a minor injury and the stress of the ensuing treatment can easily incapacitate a formerly active individual both mentally and physically. Why hasn't anyone mentioned that? Instead a picture is painted of menacing totalitarian social workers forcibly institutionalizing a perfectly capable adult.

This will immediately be recognized as absurd by anyone who has experience working with old people. Please, continue to harp on this issue. I and most other reasonable, humane individuals, shudder at the thought of what would happen to penniless old folk with no family in a "libertarian utopia" without Social Security, social workers, or Medicare and Medicaid.


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minorthreat1 said:BradMajors said:
How exactly can a state prevent someone from living in his own home?


Not a lot of people volunteer to go into a nursing home, sometimes family will make this decision for them, sometimes the state will.

Actually, a judge has to make the call on this one.


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Just a point, while most states do have a Medicaid waiver that allows for assisted living services... the programs usually have long wait lists, and priority is almost always given to people already living in nursing homes that want to move back to "the community".

It's simply a situation where it is a needed service, but we aren't willing to spend the money. Many people will never voluntarily move to a nursing home. If that is all Medicaid covers, then they will likely never use the Medicaid benefit (a cost savings, though a failure of the program). But if Medicaid expands to include assisted living or living-at-home services... then you get what we call the "woodwork" effect. While it is clear that these services are more cost effective than nursing home care, you simply will get a lot more people applying for these services. If "we" want to allow people to age with dignity, then I fully support you lobbying your state representative to increase taxes and call your congressman to relax DRA requirements for budget neutrality in State Medicaid waivers.

But as it stands now, Medicaid is for people who have no other options. At 107, it's conceivable to think that you very well may have outlived all those options.


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BrlDsguise said:hejustlaughs said:Moral of story: Don't live in Virginia.

Ironically my mother lived in Virginia for a short time and then moved to NJ where she has been catered to with assistance. She just moved into an assisted living facility which is paid for with medicaid + her social security. While I can understand a state not forcing assisted living facilities to accept medicaid why wouldn't they allow it?

Federal requirements. The Medicaid program default coverage only applies to nursing home care. States my apply for demonstration waivers to provide broader services, though they must demonstrate that the new services won't result in overall increases in cost (the States have ways of finessing numbers so that doesn't necessarily have to be true). But as my previous post states, if you want to let this dude live in assisted living, you have to let everyone do the same. Or you can allocate "slots" in the waiver, but the elderly advocates always lobby for first preference be giving to people already in nursing homes... which I can cynically attribute to their desire to antagonize the nursing home industry (who they equate with Hitler), rather than their desire to provide needed services to those they claim to speak for.


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Oh c'mon, everyone is presuming that the man was ordered into said facility and held there against his will, and arguing their case based on that presumption. There is no evidence whatever of that position. Despite being 107 the man is able bodied and with a clear mind. The doors to the facility aren't locked, and when he moved there he had enough money to walk away if that was his choice. I submit it's a hell of a lot more likely that the social workers gave him a nudge toward the choice he accepted as being in his better interest.


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staci86 said:BradMajors said:
How exactly can a state prevent someone from living in his own home?


Welcome to the era of Big Government. Social workers and bureaucrats are gaining increasing control over the lives of adults, supposedly for "their own good."

As more and more people become dependent on government programs (Medicare/Medicaid, Social Security, UHC, etc.), the administrators of those government programs will use their authority to dictate lifestyles.

If this man is on a fixed income sourced completely from the government, and relies on the government for medical care, they can tell him exactly where to live if he is to continue to qualify for benefits.

Hmmm, interesting, yet he is in this situation because of the "small" state government, but big government is being blamed?


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OLEOLEOLEO said: I and most other reasonable, humane individuals, shudder at the thought of what would happen to penniless old folk with no family in a "libertarian utopia" without Social Security, social workers, or Medicare and Medicaid.

Perhaps less "old folk" would be penniless if they werent paying 70%+ of their income into taxes to pay for previous penniless old folks care.

Dont think its 70%? Add up federal income tax, SS tax, medicare tax, state income tax, state sales tax, property tax (Even if you rent), inflation tax (when government prints more money), tax on phantom interest (that was just keeping pace with inflation anyway), gasoline tax, corporate taxes built into every product you buy or service you pay for.

Perhaps if taxation wasn't so high, we would get to keep more of our own money and not wind up penniless.


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How about medicaid pays for all the people over 100 that want assisted living, in any facility of their choice. That might raise overall Medicaid expenditures by 0.0000000000000001% even though they choose the places that serve steak and lobster puree for dinner.


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WalStMonky said:How about medicaid pays for all the people over 100 that want assisted living, in any facility of their choice. That might raise overall Medicaid expenditures by 0.0000000000000001% even though they choose the places that serve steak and lobster puree for dinner.

Then the people who are 99 years old will start complaining. It would only cost an extra 0.0000000000000002% to add 99 year olds to the list. But then the 98 year olds will complain. It would only cost an extra 0.0000000000000004% if 98 years were added.


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OLEOLEOLEO said:
What evidence do you have that this man meets any of these criteria??? The article says that those who know him think he would be better off staying in the assisted living facility rather than moving to a nursing home. Unfortunately, Virginia does not provide public assistance for assisted living. That is the issue. No one in this article is suggesting he would be just fine living alone. Whoever donated $60,000+ to keep him in assisted living probably doesn't think so either.

The article does not say what kind of medical treatment was necessary after this man fell off his bike. At that age even a minor injury and the stress of the ensuing treatment can easily incapacitate a formerly active individual both mentally and physically. Why hasn't anyone mentioned that? Instead a picture is painted of menacing totalitarian social workers forcibly institutionalizing a perfectly capable adult.

Head back to page one of this thread, and you will see that this discussion has eclipsed the specific man referenced in the article.

He fell off a bike, received treatment, and was brought by social workers to assisted living. That is all we know, and hence, why we are no longer talking about the man in the article.

OLEOLEOLEO said:
This will immediately be recognized as absurd by anyone who has experience working with old people. Please, continue to harp on this issue. I and most other reasonable, humane individuals, shudder at the thought of what would happen to penniless old folk with no family in a "libertarian utopia" without Social Security, social workers, or Medicare and Medicaid.

That isn't what is being discussed here. Nobody is making value judgments, one way or the other, regarding funding for those who do end up in assisted living. We are also not discussing those individuals so mentally disabled that they cannot perform basic functions, such as feeding themselves.

The sole point of discussion is whether an aged individual capable of making informed judgments about her own situation should be allowed to do so, even if those judgments favor intangible benefits such as independence and dignity over tangible benefits such as residency in an assisted living facility.

So, once again, should a person with mental capacity to understand and judge their own situation be able to be forced into assisted living if a government bureaucrat determines that it is in their best interests? Is rejection of state-sponsored "better care" grounds for assuming that a person is incapable of self-care, on the theory that no rational person would turn down assisted living when it delivers tangible medical benefits?


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Hmm, this story is a repeat: <snip>He has health, if not wealth

Larry Haubner turned 105 this week, but faces an uncertain future

Date published: 6/16/2007

BY JIM HALL

Larry Haubner did everything right. He worked hard, lived clean and saved his money. And he has had a long and happy life to show for it.

But now his good health has become a liability. Those who care about him are worried. At 105, he has outlived his savings and may have to move.</snip>

<snip> But in December 2004, two cars were racing and one of them cut him off, he said. He banged against the curb and went sprawling onto the sidewalk.

"I laid on the curb for a while," he said.

He injured his knee and was taken to the emergency room. Later, when a physical therapist visited his apartment, she was alarmed at the way he was living. She called the Fredericksburg Department of Social Services, where a social worker arranged to move him to Greenfield.</snip>

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fasttimes said:minorthreat1 said:BradMajors said:
How exactly can a state prevent someone from living in his own home?


Not a lot of people volunteer to go into a nursing home, sometimes family will make this decision for them, sometimes the state will.


Actually, a judge has to make the call on this one.

We made the decision for my old dad, no judge involved.


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Mr. Haubner isn't going anywhere anytime soon..


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tripleB said:Perhaps less "old folk" would be penniless if they werent paying 70%+ of their income into taxes to pay for previous penniless old folks care.

Ah yes, the old "When all else fails, complain that we are overtaxed." What an original idea.

tripleB said:Dont think its 70%?

No, as a matter of fact, I don't think it's 70%. In fact, it couldn't possibly be 70%, because somehow, in the recent past, I was able to save nearly 30% of my gross (in tax-deferred, inflation-adjusted i-bonds, no less!) and I still had money to put food on the table. Mirabile dictu!

Tax revenue in the United States as a percentage of GDP is 28%. If you're paying 70%, find a better accountant.

staci86 said:Head back to page one of this thread, and you will see that this discussion has eclipsed the specific man referenced in the article.

You're right, looking at it, this thread has become just another untethered FWF daydream about the wonders of a completely hypothetical tax-free government-free society where no one is poor (because there are no taxes, of course!), no one gets sick, no one gets old...etc etc etc. In that case I'll just bow out now.


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