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I co-signed a citi student loan for a person
at that time he was married to my sis-in-law

now they have decided to separate, they are not divorced yet. They would probably be in 2 months

What should I do to make sure that I am no longer responsible, no longer the co-signer on the student loan?

he does not have a green card or us citizenship.



i dont know, but i would say its too late. take this as a lesson.


the only way to be removed is to payoff the loan

Maybe funds can be used from the asset division during the divorce


Does you sister have any responsibility for the loan? If so, maybe you can get her to insist he pay it off as part of the divorce settlement. Otherwise, you're likely out of luck. If he leaves the country, get ready to pay for him.


a) obtain time machine
b) use it to travel back to date you co-signed for the loan minus one day
c) make a better choice


Depending on the term of the private loan. Some allows co-signer release after 36-48 on time payments.
If I were you I would try to find $$$ to pay off that loan since you're on the hook.


Co-signing for a relative is a bad idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative is a terrible idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative who isn't a citizen is possibly the worst idea I have ever heard.


nctx said: I co-signed a citi student loan for a person
at that time he was married to my sis-in-law
.

I am confused....by definition, isnt a "person married to your sis in law" mean its your brother??


SUCKISSTAPLES said: nctx said: I co-signed a citi student loan for a person
at that time he was married to my sis-in-law
.


I am confused....by definition, isnt a "person married to your sis in law" mean its your brother??

Could be his wife's sister's husband. Or his sister's husband's sister's husband.


Yeah, you are pretty well screwed. Pray to God that he doesn't skip the country/default on his loans.


SUCKISSTAPLES said: the only way to be removed is to payoff the loan

Maybe funds can be used from the asset division during the divorce

Thought death worked too.


tripleB said: Co-signing for a relative is a bad idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative is a terrible idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative who isn't a citizen is possibly the worst idea I have ever heard.
ever heard of a Poz Party?


Crazytree said: tripleB said: Co-signing for a relative is a bad idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative is a terrible idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative who isn't a citizen is possibly the worst idea I have ever heard.
ever heard of a Poz Party?
not till now.

But I guess a poz party is only a bad idea if you arent poz. If you are , its probably just a fun time.


nctx said: .... he does not have a green card or us citizenship.

getting upset won't help anything ...

if he lives in an exotic, far away place, see what he can do as far as hooking you up in his hometown with some nice vacations


Crazytree said: tripleB said: Co-signing for a relative is a bad idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative is a terrible idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative who isn't a citizen is possibly the worst idea I have ever heard.
ever heard of a Poz Party?

I had not. Here's the definition:

Poz Party = orgy w/HIV positive men


lousygolfer said: Crazytree said: tripleB said: Co-signing for a relative is a bad idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative is a terrible idea.

Co-signing for a non-relative who isn't a citizen is possibly the worst idea I have ever heard.
ever heard of a Poz Party?


I had not. Here's the definition:

Poz Party = orgy w/HIV positive men
can you google some other terms for us and post the results?


If you are still on good terms with him, you could ask him to refinance/consolidate the loan alone or with someone else as the co-signer. (Private) Student loan consolidations usually don't have a fee if his credit is good enough and he uses a new bank. This is probably your one and only choice in being removed as a co-signer.

This is assuming that you co-signed because his credit was too new and not because his credit was simply bad. I would do this before the divorce is finalized and his assets (if any) are still on hold for the divorce. Once that's over with, he could simply take his half and leave you holding the loan.

BTW, why do we have so many of these co-signer posts? People need to understand that the whole point of being a co-signer is that you are a GUARANTEE that the loan will be paid. If you can be removed from the loan so easily, the bank wouldn't go through the hassle of requiring a co-signer.


nctx said: What should I do to make sure that I am no longer responsible, no longer the co-signer on the student loan?
Pay off the loan?


There is nothing you can do about it, just hope that the person pays the loan- otherwise your credit is going to take a hit- if he does not pay it back and then it falls on you


PoisnBGood said: If you are still on good terms with him, you could ask him to refinance/consolidate the loan alone or with someone else as the co-signer. (Private) Student loan consolidations usually don't have a fee if his credit is good enough and he uses a new bank. This is probably your one and only choice in being removed as a co-signer.

This is assuming that you co-signed because his credit was too new and not because his credit was simply bad. I would do this before the divorce is finalized and his assets (if any) are still on hold for the divorce. Once that's over with, he could simply take his half and leave you holding the loan.

BTW, why do we have so many of these co-signer posts? People need to understand that the whole point of being a co-signer is that you are a GUARANTEE that the loan will be paid. If you can be removed from the loan so easily, the bank wouldn't go through the hassle of requiring a co-signer.

This is the best advise. Have him to refinance himself or with one of his relatives. You need to get clear of this as soon as possible. I have a relative that financed a car for daughter-in-law. When she left his son he had her to get it refinanced.


Crazytree said: can you google some other terms for us and post the results?

Sorry, poz parties are not part of my world, so I lacked your first-hand familiarity with the concept.


lousygolfer said: poz parties are not part of my worldthey are now!




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