I had a long explanation of what's going on, but I'll keep it simple. Choose between one of these two options, but it can be one and only one.
1. Being celibate, but completely happy with just hanging out with your friend of the opposite gender, who you'll never date or hook up with.
2. Not see above listed friend as often, and date / have a casual, physical relationsip with a friend who you've had a thing for, for a while.

EDIT: I don't feel like explaining any of it. I'm just curious what other people, mostly guys, would do.

Why do the choices have to be exclusive of each other? Can't be a friend to one and physical with the other?

i'd get some 1 then 2 then 1 and sometimes 2X1

thumpergeek said:mapatsfan said:Why do the choices have to be exclusive of each other? Can't be a friend to one and physical with the other?One would take away from the time for the other.

In that case, if it were me, I'd go for #2 and see how much #1 I could manage with any time left over from #2 as long as #2 wasn't jealous.

mapatsfan said:thumpergeek said:mapatsfan said:Why do the choices have to be exclusive of each other? Can't be a friend to one and physical with the other?One would take away from the time for the other.

In that case, if it were me, I'd go for #2 and see how much #1 I could manage with any time left over from #2 as long as #2 wasn't jealous.Both know about the other. They don't know each other though. I don't know if 2 would be jealous, but I'm leaning more towards 1 anyway.

most guys (ok, maybe ALL?) will probably say #2, but i will tell you....

girl #2 will most likely end up getting jealous sooner or later, even though she may originally start out thinking "it's just sex". why? i don't know. it's how chicks work.

if girl #1 likes you in that way, you don't like her like that, then she'll most likely be jealous anyway. and most of the time, two jealous girls will turn out to be the biggest headache for you. it probably would have been a little different if they knew nothing about each other to begin with.

so that's rule #1--NEVER tell one chick about even the possibility of there being another chick "somewhere" in the picture, even if you're not bf/gf.

bigmama3 said:so that's rule #1--NEVER tell one chick about even the possibility of there being another chick "somewhere" in the picture, even if you're not bf/gf.that pretty much says it all.

so if they both already know about eah other, you already blew it.

Go number 2 on girl number 1

Go number 1 on girl number 2

thumpergeek said:I had a long explanation of what's going on, but I'll keep it simple. Choose between one of these two options, but it can be one and only one.
1. Being celibate, but completely happy with just hanging out with your friend of the opposite gender, who you'll never date or hook up with.
2. Not see above listed friend as often, and date / have a casual, physical relationsip with a friend who you've had a thing for, for a while.

EDIT: I don't feel like explaining any of it. I'm just curious what other people, mostly guys, would do.

Judging by your past, it'll probably be harder for you to get another girl to willingly want to have sex with you than another "best friend."

If I was single, I go for #2! Hell Yeah!